Is it possible to get out of friend zone

I am definitely still interested in having a partner who I can share my life with, and am opening myself up to men who are PROVING that they are capable of connecting at a deeper level. Should I take more time away from the game?

Or is there a way for me to open myself up and relax into being with someone even it its uncomfortable? Thank you so much for your support, sisterhood and love! How I can FWB relationship turn into an actual relationship? I would also need more details.

This is why I cannot give advice in the comments section. The link to it is on the homepage. You are an exceptional writer, very perceptive and directly honest in a wonderfully down to earth way. So thank YOU for my truth by proxy. Hi, read another blog article by you and this one.

And right now there is one person that seems to want space. That is how I found your blog. And I cried whilst reading both of them because it is so relatable. It is nice to find someone I can relate to. The only thing is I always have bad luck with guys and relationships and it feels like I am forever going to be lonely.

This is the one and only thing in my life that when I start thinking about it and that, it gets me sad and upset and I start crying.

Anyways, keep doing what your doing. And thank you. Hi Katie! You are understood, loved, supported, backed, believed in and never, ever alone in any of this. Once she realizes that she can't read you, she'll go crazy about you and will always look forward to the next date. The goal is to change the way she sees you. If she only ever sees you as the guy who has no other social life aside from spending time pleasing her, then you have to do something about that. Date other girls, and show her that you are boyfriend material.

Don't be so hung up on the fact that you are in love with your friend. If she hasn't shown you interest yet, then go and find someone who has. Yes, you like her, but since it seems like she's not into you, start dating other girls and make sure she knows it. Jealousy is a powerful thing you can play with!

If she sees you with another girl, she's going to want you back. Focus on improving yourself. Try new things, read more, hit the gym, or change your wardrobe. Do anything that can help you gain more confidence.

The right amount of confidence is so hot on anyone. Being insecure will only sink you deeper into the friend zone. If you're currently in the friend zone and your friend talks to you about the cute guy she met at the bar, don't act jealous.

Play it cool and compliment the guy she's talking about. Use some reverse psychology on her and show her that you are confident in yourself and are not afraid or intimidated by anyone. If you really want to win her, you need to develop a sexual attraction between the two of you.

Adding a little touch and occasionally teasing her can make her change the way she looks at you. Be the nice guy but be flirty sometimes.

One of the reasons why men are put in the friend zone is because they fail to show their sexuality. Women, most of the time, withdraw from men who are not sexually open. So if you want to get out of the friend zone, show her that you are capable of being sexual. You can do this by gently touching her arm when you talk to each other or come up with a good reason to take her hand.

Read her palm and drop hints of what you want to happen. Trace the lines of her palm and say some pickup lines like "Oh, it says you think I'm hot" or something similar to that. Don't underestimate these little things. They spark sexual attraction and can help you move from being "just friends" to being a potential boyfriend. Stop assuming that she already knows your feelings for her.

The truth is she probably doesn't. Make your intentions clear and tell her that you see her as more than just a friend. Of course, you have to drop hints that you like her first before dropping the "I love you" bomb at her. If you confess your feelings on a bad timing without the pregame , you will end up making her feel uncomfortable and awkward about it. It is not going to be easy, but you have to get it out there.

Everything takes time, getting out of the friend zone will not happen overnight, especially if you're dealing with a long-standing friendship. Be patient. If you try to rush the process, you will only make her feel uncomfortable.

Pushing too hard or too fast will cause you to lose everything. But remember that now that she knows about your feelings, you can stop acting like you just want her to be your friend. No, you don't have to act like his boyfriend either. Just ask her out on a real date or send her flowers without her thinking that you're just nice. Do what a suitor would do and see where it goes!

Girls have romantic standards when it comes to their ideal guy. If your girl has dated other men before, try to find their common traits and see if it's something you can be. Part of getting her to be your girlfriend is passing her standards.

Once she sees that you have ticked off her boxes, she'll consider you as one of her options and maybe even take a chance on you after telling her how you feel. Flirting, when done right, can get you to where you want to be! You can start with subtle flirting like keeping eye-contact or letting your touch linger on her. Don't be afraid to compliment her in a teasing or sexy way. Be confident. Show her that you know what you're doing. Girls love it when guys take the lead, especially in these matters.

Observe how she reacts every time you flirt, if she responds then, congratulations, you're a few more flirting away to winning her. You might be asking why the hell should you make an effort to win her friends? We say, why not? Just imagine, if you won her friends' hearts, then they will have tons of positive things to say about you.

Use her friends as your wingman. Once her friends see how you guys are so fit for each other, she will start seeing that too. Some things in life are just not meant for us. Rejection sucks and will make you feel like crap. Know that the world doesn't revolve around a single person, so don't let it take the best of you. It's okay to be disappointed, angry, or sad as long as you don't stay there for a long time. If you think about it, you have only two options when someone says they want to be friends: accept it and be friends or refuse and get the hell out of their life.

There is no third way. If they change their mind, it has to come from them and not be brought about by wearing them down.

It can hurt when romantic desire is unrequited. But you do at least still have your dignity. Embrace it and try your best to move on. This is how a gentleman behaves. You need to start earlier. How will you get what you want? What are you really interested in this person for? Just sex?